Years ago, I was introduced to a Jonathan Haidt concept regarding how the mind, emotions, and behavior function. Later illustrated in a YouTube video, a narrator described:
Psychologists know that there are two systems in our brains, the rational system and the emotional system. Jonathan Haidt, who’s a psychologist at NYU [New York University], came up with a great analogy for these two systems. He said, ‘Think of your brain as a human rider atop an elephant.’
The rider represents the rational system—that’s the part of us that plans and problem-solves. The rider might do some analyzing and decide, ‘Hey, I wanna go that way.’ But it’s the elephant, representing the emotional system, that provides the power for the journey. The rider can try to lead the elephant or drag the elephant, but if these two ever disagree, who would you bet on?
The elephant has a 6-ton weight advantage, and it’s exactly that power imbalance that makes adopting new behaviors very hard. If you want this duo to head a new direction, you also need to think about the path which represents the external environment. This duo is more likely to complete a journey if you can shorten the distance and remove any obstacles in their way.
So bottom line, if you want to lead change, you’ve got to do three things. Give direction to the rider—knowledge of how to get to the destination. You’ve got to motivate the elephant, which means tapping into emotion. And finally, you need to shape the path to allow for easy progress. That’s how change happens.
Although there are elements of this analogy with which I disagree, I overall appreciate the concept. Adjusting the comparison to fit a Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) frame, I offer the following.
The rider continues to represent the rational mind. Using logic and reason, the rider may influence the elephant which represents consequential feelings (emotions and bodily sensations) and behavior. These consequences are dependent upon what instruction is received from the rider.
For instance, if the rider uses a well-reasoned prescription in association with the elephant, the beast will likely respond accordingly. As an example, the rider may instruct, “Go this way,” as he motions in a particular direction, “because there’s a cliff up ahead and we don’t need to go over it.”
However, when the rider uses irrational beliefs in the form of demandingness, awfulizing, low frustration tolerance, or global evaluations, the elephant takes these rigid commands and runs with them. The results of the rider’s unhelpful assumptions may have devastating effects.
As an example, the rider may inflexibly command, “I must not make mistakes, others must also be perfect, and the world must never inconvenience me!” Unlike productive instruction, whereby averting catastrophe of tumbling over a cliff occurs, unhelpful musterbation causes the elephant to react erratically.
Regarding the path, I disagree with the notion that one can or even should remove obstacles which impede the rider and elephant’s journey. I simply do not see evidence of a rider maintaining enough control over others or the world as a whole in order to fulfill such a mission.
With little doubt, I suspect the feel-good idea of being able to manipulate one’s environment in such a way may be preferable to the challenge of facing discomfort with tolerance and acceptance. After all, it isn’t pleasing to think of how little control one has in this life.
Nevertheless, I operate in accordance with the is-ought standard—acknowledging reality rather than demanding that life ought to be any other way. Therefore, I advocate dealing with the path as it is rather than how one irrationally believes it ought to be.
Moreover, and contrary to what the narrator of the YouTube video stated, I don’t advocate “easy progress.” Progress, whether easy or not, is the goal.
In all, I appreciate Haidt’s contribution to the knowledge of how change works. With slight modification to fit an REBT frame, I use his illustrative example when working with people who are unfamiliar with how to effectively address their interests and goals.
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